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| Name | A Conversation With My Best Friend About Growing Up Jewish |
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| Video Discription | I recently had a zoom call with one of my best friends from high school, Ilana. In this video we reminisce on our experiences in high school, and what life was like for Ilana growing up Jewish and how she plans to raise her daughter. Time stamps: 00:42 Ilana’s dad and his parents, and what orthodox Judaism meant to him 04:34 Ilana’s mom was raised in a less orthodox environment 05:25 No bat mitzvah 06:40 going back and forth between different sects, including egalitarian conservative synagogue 07:16 Is there fighting between sects? 09:46 performative piety; people who do it to impress neighbors 13:14 finding her own way 14:46 high school memories! (Health class, and Avril Levine song) 21:00 coming with me to church activities 23:17 Newsies the musical 23:44 Ilana’s first Christmas 24:43 What kinds of things shaped your personal beliefs and practices as you were growing up? 25:36 Jewish cultural worldview 26:42 abstinence only; purity culture; thought police 30:19 teaching an American cultural worldview 31:00 Mormon sects and off-shoots 34:51 Similarities between our religious experiences 35:05 Various services offered by Ilana’s volunteer group 35:30 Not all of them have left their community of origin, but they have questions 38:04 High school memory: standing up for your beliefs and not worrying if people will think less of you for it 41:28 Other services provided by Ilana’s volunteer group; some reasons people coming from extremely insular orthodox groups may come to Ilana’s volunteer group 49:03 Another high school memory (lockers) 51:43 What Ilana does for a living 53:10 What is modesty? 56:43 We dislike the superficial acts of piety 57:20 Orthodox day camp experiences 01:00:55 Challah, and Paul Hollywood embarrassing himself 01:03:25 Transitions of Ilana’s students; their paths of exploration 01:07:13 Netflix documentary “One of Us” 01:08:35 Difficulties in transitioning out of an insular religious community 01:13:05 Leaving a community can mean a loss of identity; they might be cut off from their loved ones and there can be custody issues; it can have an impact on one’s younger siblings. They need to have a lot of inner strength and they need to work out their own code of ethics and beliefs 01:23:22 Family planning; Women’s highest, holiest calling is motherhood 01:29:34 Sense of betrayal by religious leaders who intentionally withheld critical information 01:35:44 some origins of the pressure to have as many children as possible 01:40:04 Needing permission from a rabbi for major life decisions 01:42:48 “Don’t air dirty laundry”; communities will help out their own members in times of crisis 01:51:51 How are you going to raise your daughter? 01:52:33 Part of what is so beautiful about Judaism is the shared cultural language, traditions, customs, rituals. Shared cultural trauma is also very bonding 01:54:58 How to explain to her daughter what being Jewish means; and also that every Jewish person has experienced anti-Semitism, and preparing children for that. 01:55:45 Positive memories of growing up in the Jewish faith, and traditions that she wants to pass on to her daughter 01:56:45 Ilana’s husband’s experiences growing up Jewish 01:57:33 Growing up Jewish is so much more than just having faith in a particular religion 02:01:01 Shared rituals, customs and culture help us bond 02:05:40 Anti-Semitic experiences; unjustified persecution complexes among Mormons 02:12:41 Logical fallacies Books Ilana mentioned: Cut Me Loose, by Leah Vincent: https://www.amazon.com/Cut-Loose-Salvation-Ultra-Orthodox-2014-01-21/dp/B01N916D8A/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= All Who Go Do Not Return: A Memoir by Shulem Deen: https://www.amazon.com/All-Who-Go-Not-Return-ebook/dp/B00LRWK334/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=all+who+go+do+not+return&qid=1612565003&s=books&sr=1-1 Unorthodox: The Scandalous Rejection of My Hasidic Roots, by Deborah Feldman: https://www.amazon.com/Unorthodox-Scandalous-Rejection-Hasidic-Roots-ebook/dp/B005GG0M60/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1612566333&sr=1-1 Unchosen: The Hidden Lives of Hasidic Rebels, by Hella Winston: https://www.amazon.com/Unchosen-Hidden-Lives-Hasidic-Rebels/dp/0807036269/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1612566546&sr=1-4 Hush, by Bishes Chayil (aka Judy Brown): https://www.amazon.com/Hush-Eishes-Chayil/dp/0802723322 The blog that she mentioned at 1:46:50 & 1:52:55: —Frieda Vizel's old blog, published under the pen name Shpitzle Shtrimpkind: http://shtrimpkind.blogspot.com/ —Her current blog: https://friedavizel.com/blog/ 1:45:59 https://www.timesofisrael.com/rabbis-get-rid-of-the-internet-if-you-know-whats-good-for-you/?fbclid=IwAR2wyvNuzZmw3sFnVv6QSEHwEbLgBCNlRIJ-iYgUALFHsTyqB9AdOOy1PIc Cholla cactus: https://clipground.com/cholla-cactus-clipart.html Support my work: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ExmoRachel [k-H_qG9sz-Q] |
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